Survivor-Centered Transformative Justice.
At Incest AWARE, we believe that the justice process can fulfill three primary goals: help survivors and families to recover, end recidivism by the person or people who harmed, and guide communities through healing and restoration. The justice system can direct survivors and their families to recovery resources, as well as compensate them for all expenses and losses caused by the violence. People who harm can learn how to transform violent behaviors into safety through dignified means of accountability. Communities can be restored through individual and collective healing actions.
What is transformative justice?
Transformative Justice seeks to address the causes of violence at their root: the social, economic, and political environments that perpetuate harmful behaviors. Safety is the responsibility of the community, so individuals must be taught how to behave safely in relationship with themselves, each other, and the systems built to support both. Violence is the direct cause of injustices against the community by systems, as well as the failure to teach or manage safe behaviors by individuals within the community.
How is transformative justice applied in cases of Child Sexual Abuse?
Generative Five, founded and run by survivors, including incest survivor Staci Haines, created an extension guide to how Transformative Justice values and methods can be applied to the harms caused by child sexual abuse. The guide can be read here:
Toward Transformative Justice: A Liberatory Approach to Child Sexual Abuse
Why do we take a transformative approach to justice around incest abuse?
​Historically, the criminal punishment system has failed to prevent incest, support survivors and families through recovery, end recidivism by people who harm, and restore safety to communities. Incest leaves survivors vulnerable to health conditions and economic insecurities, as well as relationship challenges with themselves and others. Although the consequences of sexual violence may be obvious in some cases, many times the harm done is internal so cannot be seen by others. This makes community intervention more challenging in cases of sexual assault, while placing the burden and consequences of disclosure on the survivor.
Due to secrets and shame caused by the threats of people who harm to gain and keep access to the victim, as well as a lack of social and systemic supports, often survivors of sexual abuse never disclose. Others delay disclosing incest abuse until much later in life. Sometimes this is due to Dissociative Amnesia, also known as recovered memories or delayed recall, where the severity of the trauma causes the brain to forget or store the memories for a long period of time.
The gap between the time the offense/s occurred and the survivor reported can make it difficult for them to provide direct evidence of the abuse to support their case/s for the criminal or civil legal processes. Additional barriers to reporting and disclosure by survivors have been disbelief of non-offending bystanders, the retraumatization of the criminal and civil legal processes, as well as statute of limitations laws that restrict reporting after a period of time has passed. Disclosure is particularly uncommon for survivors who are/were harmed by people within their family system, or who they are economically or ontologically dependent on.
Without a criminal conviction, survivors do not receive victim compensation to aid them in their recovery process, forcing them to take financial responsibility for the consequences of the harm done to them. Additionally, survivors who share their stories publicly without a conviction are more vulnerable to lawsuits due to defamation laws.
For the people who harm who do receive a criminal conviction, incest abuse and child sexual abuse counts have temporary, not lifelong sentences. Although these people who harm are isolated from children during their time in the prison system, they are then released back into the public without any assurance that they will not harm again. As sexual violence is so common within the prison system, many may leave their sentences as survivors. Some suggest the best solution is to make incest abuse and child sexual abuse offenses lifelong sentences. However, due to the complex relationships survivors, families, and communities have to people who are responsible for harm, harsher sentences become another deterrent to disclosure, safe intervention, reporting, healing, and justice.
When systems like the criminal legal process have been oppressive to historically marginalized populations, communities themselves have reimagined and created visions for transformative justice that ensure everyone is safe in all ways. Incest abuse has been difficult to center and focus as one issue exacerbated by all other social injustices that are so prevalent in our communities like racism, classism, adultism, sexism homophobia, transphobia, etc. In order to end incest, we have to end all social and systemic harms by promoting equity. We join the transformative justice movement to contribute to this great vision of a world that centers the safety of children.
How is Incest AWARE engaging in transforming the justice process?
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At Incest AWARE, we are gathering and promoting evidence-based research projects to help us and society understand the complexities of incest child sexual abuse. We are also developing partnerships with other organizations focused on transformative justice in the child sexual abuse field. Collectively, we practice person-first language when referring to people who harmed, while focusing on sexual problematic behaviors, as opposed to demonizing or reducing people to what they've done. We understand that the binary of "perpetrator" versus "survivor" is so much more complex in all sexual violence cases, as often perpetrators are also survivors and survivors have also caused harm. In cases of incest abuse, this binary can be particularly unhelpful as it can be difficult for victims of family harm to see their loved ones as "perpetrators," when they are also often their providers, their confidants, their friends, the foundation of their economic and communal support systems.
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We provide supportive, trauma-informed support, resources and information for anyone who is impacted by CSA. We specifically seek to provide pathways and help to people at risk of causing sexual harm so that they are able to live harm-free.
WhatsOK? is a resource specifically for youth and young adults, ages 14-21, who have concerns about safe sexual behaviors. Both are available through phone, chat, email. Text is also offered on WhatsOK?
Hidden Water is a restorative justice program working with individuals and families who have been impacted by child sexual abuse.
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What does it mean for our tranformative justice to be survivor-centered?
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At times, transformative justice processes can center the treatment, needs, and desires of the person who harmed, instead of the victim or survivor. At Incest AWARE, we promote a transformative justice approach that always centers the survivor's agency, inviting them to communicate their desires for healing and involvement in the process of accountability and treatment. Although transforming violence at the root is the primary responsibility of the community, survivors define how they want to engage in this process.
Community Resources.
Disclaimer.
These individuals and organizations were gathered by the Incest AWARE team. They are all options for incest abuse survivors and those seeking to support them, not direct endorsements. Please, reach out to these resources and contacts directly to decide if the programs and people are right for you and your clients.







